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When One of You Says “We Don’t Need Counselling”

 

We just need to:

Stop bringing up the past.

Stop bringing up the same issues.

Stop blaming.

“We Don’t Need Counselling.”

So we’ll keep:

Sleeping with our backs to each other.

Replaying arguments in our heads that never get resolved.

Remembering when we last laughed together.

Remembering how good things were in the beginning.

Remembering our last date night.

We Don’t Need Counselling:

Until one of us stops trying.

Stops talking.

Stops caring.

Couples don’t call when things feel uncomfortable.

They call when someone says

“it’s over.”

They call when someone says

“I don’t love you anymore.”

They call when one person says

“I want to be happy and I’m not happy with you.”

Most relationships fall apart from slow emotional neglect and resentment.

Don’t wait until someone says it’s over.

Don’t wait until no one is talking to each other.

Don’t wait until you’re flat mates instead of lovers.

Take the first step to winning each other back.

Take the first step to winning your best friend back.

Take the first step by clicking on the link below for a booking today.

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