Just like a bank account, you need to deposit more than you withdraw to pay the bills.
In your relationship there needs to be deposits made every day so the relationship will hold up against the hard times.
Deposits are affection, physical and emotional connection, respect, kindness, empathy, listening to your partner’s concerns, doing errands together like the groceries.
Buying your partner a treat while you’re out, sending affectionate txts during the day, quality time together, date nights, getting your partner a hot drink first thing in the morning or when you are making yourself one during the day.
Withdrawals are fighting, conflict, yelling, screaming, criticism, contempt, name calling, swearing, slamming doors, not considering your partner’s opinions, luring to your partner, socialising without your partner, no quality time together.
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