Do you know how to communicate to your partner to get your needs met and how important are your partner’s needs to you?
All too often, when one person isn’t getting their needs met, they show love in a way they are needing their partner to give them.
Maybe one person grew up in a family where affection was freely given and they were all good communicators but their partner grew up with zero affection displayed and the family kept all their feelings buried.
The result of these two people coming together is one person may be starved off affection and communication in their relationship because their partner tells them “I don’t need affection and I’m not going to change. You knew what I was like when we dated! I’m not going to change now and I don’t even like holding hands!!”
The other person is left lonely, unsupported, not valued or heard.
This will cause a disconnection emotionally and physically because of criticism, contempt, disappointment and annoyance.
When you love your partner, why would you deliberately withhold from them what you know they need?
If you want to keep your relationship long-term and have a fantastic relationship, find out what your partner needs, listen and meet those needs for them.
You will get back more from the relationship and have a stronger friendship of love, communication and emotional and physical intimacy.
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