No one enters a relationship expecting it to only last short term.
You don’t buy a car expecting to have it for only a short time.
How do you ensure your car will be around long term?
You make sure you keep up with the services.
You fill up on fuel as you get low.
You replace tires when their treads are low.
You watch the warning lights on your dashboard to keep an eye on your oil, water, battery etc.
If you were to continually drive a car without any services, you couldn’t have an expectation of long jeopardy.
That would be foolish but couples come together expecting relationships to last long term without putting in any work on the relationship.
What are the warning signs your relationship is in trouble? Would you know what to look for?
Here are warning signs your relationship is in trouble.
You stop communicating on a positive level.
Every issue results in conflict due to defensiveness.
Conflict results in name-calling, putdowns, blaming, screaming, and storming off and your issues remain unresolved.
You both have pulled away emotionally and physically.
You avoid each other by going to bed at separate times and or sleeping in separate rooms, making social plans without each other.
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