How good are you at listening to each other during conflict?
Do you listen to understand your partner or are you thinking about what you’re going to say next when your partner is trying to explain their perspective?
Are you focusing on how the conflict makes you feel rather than trying to resolve the issue?
Do you both get heated until someone storms off and then punish each other with silence for hours or even days?
Do your arguments result in sleeping in separate bedrooms?
Do your arguments result in both of you drifting apart where you both focus on the negatives in each other?
Do you both get to a point of being reactive at the smallest issue?
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