Every relationship needs intimacy but what does intimacy look like to you?
Maybe you have trouble putting this into words because you’ve both pushed the relationship aside for so long you’ve forgotten what intimacy looks like but you haven’t forgotten what it feels like and you’re now feeling like flatmates.
Intimacy means something different to each person.
For a woman it might mean affection, cuddling, holding hands on the beach or cuddling in bed.
For a man, it might just mean physical intimacy in the bedroom.
So how do we get the intimacy back we long for?
It begins with the emotional connection in the relationship. Without this, the woman, in general, does not feel emotionally safe in the bedroom.
A woman likes to be held gently, spoken to lovingly, holding hands going for walks, even the cuddles on the lounge while watching a movie and words of affirmation every day.
All these things are as important as the glue and grout that holds your tiles to the wall. Without the glue and grout, the tiles would fall off and smash.
Without the emotional connection, the relationship falls apart.
Two people become roommates who can’t agree or navigate through conflict.
Your Relationship needs to be made a priority on a regular basis. Not just on special occasions.
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