It can be very difficult to find the right person.
You can spend years alone before you think you’ve found your partner.
But sometimes it is better to be alone than to be in a relationship wishing you were alone.
If there are red flags, don’t ignore them to avoid being alone again.
Many people ignore, justify, excuse or just totally miss any and all red flags.
Would you recognise a red flag if you saw one in a relationship?
So what does a red flag look like?
1. Your date showers you with too many compliments on the first date.
“You are the most beautiful woman I have ever been with!”
“We are meant for each other!!”
“I feel such a strong attraction to you!”
“I’m in love with you!”
“I’m going to marry you!”
2. They tell you their ex-partner is abusive, crazy, a psycho, took all their money etc.
3. They have multimillion-dollar properties, investments etc. They hold a prestigious position in their multimillion-dollar company with 100 staff or have received high praise and recognition in their past career.
4. They tell you, you can trust them; they won’t hurt you; they have no debts; they don’t lie, and they’re faithful.
Anybody who can be trusted doesn’t need to advertise it.
5. You go to a restaurant and they speak down to the waiter/waitress.
6. They talk themselves up telling you how important they are.
7. They speak down to you and even sound condescending.
They become critical of you.
8. They are critical of your friends and or family.
9. They constantly fixate on your looks sexually.
10. They tell you what they need sexually before getting to know you.
If you think you are in a relationship with any of these red flags and would like support, click on the link below for a booking today.
