When a couple feels comfortable with each other enough to be silly together it strengthens the bond of the relationship. A couple who can do this tend to laugh more and take themselves seriously less.
Silliness cultivates a relationship of trust and security. This doesn’t mean there is no place to be serious in the relationship or one person’s concerns are not taken seriously.
Silliness means a couple knows how to have fun together and it strengthens the romance and intimacy in the bedroom.
So what does Silliness look like?
It isn’t ever at the expense of your partner. It isn’t making fun of them to make others laugh at your partner. Silliness is what makes you laugh together. It may also include secret pet names for each other or inside jokes.
Silliness in a relationship is meant to cultivate a strong bond of friendship and happy memories. It is never to humiliate the other person.
When a couple can be silly together it means they’re relaxed and committed to each other. They will be more affectionate in public such as holding hands, cuddling and kissing.
This type of couple generally knows how to navigate their way through conflict understanding the importance of their relationship and their partner. There will be more give and take in this type of relationship.
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