How do you know if your partner loves conditionally?
Conditional love makes you feel
Unaccepted.
Having to always prove you’re good enough.
Your partner keeps moving the goal post of the relationship.
Your partner makes you feel you’re not worthy to be loved.
You don’t feel listened to because you are constantly shut down, dismissed or talked over.
You don’t feel desired by your partner.
Your partner will only meet your needs, be nice to you, or do things for you when you jump through all their hoops.
You do your partner favours, go out of your way for them, and support them but when you ask them to do one thing they refuse to help you and make you feel bad for putting them out.
What does unconditional love feel like in the relationship?
You feel supported, loved and taken care of.
You feel valued and a priority.
You feel emotionally safe in the relationship.
You feel cherished.
You can go to your partner with any problem and know you wont be judged.
You feel built up and encouraged even when you don’t feel you did enough.
Even when your partner is exhausted they still insisted on looking after you.
Your partner listens to your point of view, even when you have a difference of opinion.
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