If you are in a relationship where your partner is constantly swearing when they are frustrated or swearing at you because things are not going their way, this is not ok.
Maybe you accept it for these reasons.
1) I grew up around this behaviour.
2) Doesn’t everyone do it?
3) All our friends do it.
4) I thought it was normal.
5) I’ve said I don’t like it but they either ignore me or they swear louder at me.
6) I thought it was my fault because that’s what I’m always told.
Being called derrogative names and or being sworn at is never ok.
You have a right to put boundaries down.
It doesn’t matter how many people you know are in this type of relationship.
It doesn’t make this behaviour acceptable and it also means the other relationships are also abusive and toxic.
It is about recognising yourself worth.
If you have children, do you want your children accepting this behaviour too or do you want better for them?
If you are afraid to stand up for yourself, it tells you, you are in an abusive relationship.
Domestic violence is not only physical abuse.
It uncludes, verble, psychological, coercive, (throwing things, yelling and screaming, punching holes in walls and doors, threatening to punch holes in walls and doors, threatening to punch the victim,) financial, sexual, and spiritual abuse.
If you can relate to this and you would like things to change or you need support leaving this behaviour, click on the link below for a booking today.
