It is important to be adaptable in your relationship. It can make a difference in a successful relationship.
Adaptability means things don’t always have to go our way.
Maybe your partner agreed to meet you after work for a night out. You’ve been looking forward to it all day. You haven’t spent time together all week.
During the day your partner messages you to say they have to work back late so they can’t go out to dinner.
What do you do? Yes, it’s disappointing and upsetting.
Firstly let your partner know you understand.
2ndly you could make a special dinner at home. Find out what time your partner expects to be home and let them know you’ll have something special waiting for them at home.
Surprises don’t always end well and your partner may choose to buy food on the way home expecting nothing to be cooked when they get home.
Being adaptable means being supportive.
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