When you go into a relationship without doing the work on yourself after one or more failed relationships, you may find Mr right but be Mrs wrong for them.
Many people use the next relationship as an exit relationship from healing from the previous relationships.
The outcome is not only going from relationship to relationship but also from marriage to marriage.
Self reflection needs to take place.
Ask yourself the question.
“Am I my own worst enemy?”
People often think
“I will be different with this person.”
Or “It will be different with this person.”
But if you or the other person hasn’t done the necessary work on yourselves before entering a new relationship, the same mistakes are going to be made because both people will bring the same fears and triggers into every relationship.
You can’t exchange new relationships for work that needs to take place within you.
You can’t use relationships to avoid going through grief and pain from old relationships.
If you are using a relationship to avoid doing the work on yourself, you are looking at a short term relationship which will cause both of you further pain.
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